My in-laws lived in the same building as us. When child #3 came around, we all had a big family meeting to discuss whether I'd return to work or not. We all decided (me, too) that it would be best for me to stay home and handle the children; my in-laws watched her sometimes if I needed to run an errand that I couldn't take her along (like to the school where my other children were or a doctor's appointment), so it was good to have that support. I was blessed with both input and support from them and my husband. He's also thoughtful in that he consults me before inviting company (and I do the same for him). Most of our friends don't consult.

Fortunately, my husband is a fantastic cook, and we've taught our boys to both cook and bake. My daughter, on the other hand, is a tough case with that. No interest, although I think she has some of the basics down now...